Are you wondering how long you should try to conceive naturally before seeing a doctor? At Fertilista, we get asked this question all the time, and today I’m here to walk you through the exact timelines for when you should see your doctor, what type of doctor you should see, and what labs should be run.
Here’s everything you need to know about when to see a doctor for fertility concerns.
Timing to See a Doctor
For most women, the question of when to see a doctor for fertility hinges on age:
- Under 36: Consider seeing a doctor within 8 to 12 months of trying to conceive naturally. Statistics show that 88% of women will conceive naturally within the first year. However, sometimes it’s wise not to wait the entire 12 months. It can take a few months of lead time to get in to see a doctor for a consult.
- 36 and Older: You should consider seeing a doctor after 6 months of trying to conceive. Again, don’t wait until the exact six-month mark. If you’ve been trying for four or five months and feel something might be off, make that phone call. It’s going to take a few weeks or a few months to get in to see the doctor.
Trust Your Intuition
Trust your intuition. If you feel something might be wrong, don’t ignore it. Women have an excellent sense of intuition and you should listen to that. Early consultation can save time and stress later on. Even getting a consult doesn’t mean immediate action, but it sets the process in motion.
Types of Doctors to Consult
Choosing the right type of doctor is crucial:
- OB/GYN: They can perform initial labs but do not specialize in fertility treatments. If you think IUI or IVF might be in your future, starting with a reproductive endocrinologist is better.
- Reproductive Endocrinologist: These specialists are better equipped for advanced fertility treatments. No matter what labs you have done at your OB office, your reproductive endocrinologist is going to want to rerun those labs.
Necessary Lab Tests
When you consult a doctor, expect several key lab tests:
- Cycle Day Three Blood Work: Measures TSH (thyroid stimulating hormone), FSH (follicle stimulating hormone), prolactin, progesterone, LH (luteinizing hormone), estradiol (estrogen), and AMH (anti-Müllerian hormone).
- Semen Analysis for Partner: Essential to rule out male fertility issues. The IVF clinic can refer him to a specialist.
The Consultation Process
The process involves waiting for the next menstrual cycle to perform necessary labs. This can extend the timeline, making early consultation important. It can take two months, three months, four months to get it all queued up. Starting early ensures you’re prepared for any necessary steps ahead.
Knowing when to see a doctor for fertility can make a significant difference in your fertility journey. Whether you’re under 36 or older, the key is to trust your intuition and act early. Remember, the sooner you start, the sooner you can get the answers and support you need.
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